Janet Ellen Berrey passed away January 31, 2026 in Fayetteville, AR. Janet was the eldest of four children born to Ellen and Vincent J. Long in Saint Louis MO, January 1, 1932. She attended Monte Cassino High School and graduated in 1948. She attended Maryville College, St. Louis MO. She later obtained her bachelor’s degree from St. Louis University. She met her husband Joseph Lane Berrey at a basketball game and they later married at Holy Family Cathedral, Tulsa, OK, 1951.
Janet is preceded in death by her parents; husband Joseph Lane Berrey; sons, Joseph Lane Berrey Jr. and John Lane Berrey; brother-in-law Don Brockwell; sons-in-law, Randy Bauer and Ben Gover; nephews, Ronnie Lemon and Thomas Brockwell; niece Katherine Coutemange; and grandson Michael Gover.
Janet and Joe traveled many places with friends and family. They later made their home on an original Osage allotment in Sperry, OK. They enjoyed being parents and most importantly they loved being grandparents. They had a Christmas tree, cattle and pecan businesses. They were very involved in their community and served on the board of the Kihekah Steh Powwow Club. The marriage continued until Joe’s death.
Janet moved to Butterfield Village in Fayetteville, AR. There she continued be a strong matriarch of the family. She had many friends and built a strong community there.
She enjoyed baseball, football and crosswords. She was an avid reader, a gifted knitter, a fabulous cook, with a sharp and witty sense of humor. She never met a stranger and will be missed.
Janet is survived by her beloved siblings, Dr. John and Mary Ann Hackett, La Grange, IL, Mrs. Virginia Brockwell, Las Cruces, NM, and Vincent J. Jr. and Gayle Long, Tulsa OK; her devoted children, Mrs. Ellen Bauer, St. Charles, MO, Janet and Dr Ali Sadeghi, Hatfield, PA, Mrs. Mary Jo Gover, Hogeye, AR, Mrs. Katherine Pratt, Miami, OK, Carol and Charlie Boger, Fayetteville AR., and daughter-in-law Mrs. Sarah Berrey, Joplin MO; grandchildren, Ivy, Joe, Ninoosh, Gila, Nicole, Jack, Lane, Angela, Eddie, Joy, Emily, Cade, Berrey, Liam, and Henry; great-grandchildren, Janet, Marley, Reed, Randy, Ava, Max, Rhys, Phiphers, Audrey, Alexa, Gabrial, River, Joseph, Adrian, Izaiah, Jade, Emma, and Emmett; and great-great-grandchildren Blake and Layla.
Graveside services will be 1:00 PM Wednesday, January 4, 2026 at Calvary Cemetery in Tulsa, OK.
There is no scheduled visitation.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Catholic Charities of Eastern, OK, https://cceok.org/donate/ or Catholic Charities Development Office, PO Box 580460, Tulsa, OK 74158-0460.

Sending our deepest sympathy & love.
It’s the third day that she’s gone, but I already miss her. From the day I met my wife, Janet, she has always been very supportive of me. She had all the arrangements to the fullest for our wedding and had periodically traveled to see our family wherever we lived. Everytime Janet was on a call with her, she always said she loved me and made sure to ask if I was okay. She was the best mother in law ever and I truly miss her.
Janet will be missed. She always had a smile on her face. My son Chris (Tiffer) loved her like she was his.
Love and hugs to her family.