Ralph Harry Nesson, February 27, 1947~January 6, 2020

Jan 7, 2020

Kind soul, dear husband, loving father, admiring brother, and steadfast son, Ralph Harry Nesson, age 72, of Fayetteville passed January 6, 2020. Born February 27, 1947 to William T. and Freda Sarah Nesson, he grew up in Brookline, Mass. with two surviving siblings, Carol Nesson and Bob Nesson. After his undergraduate studies at Hobart College, and graduate studies at Boston College, Ralph set off for adventures around the U.S., living in Chicago, San Francisco, and Santa Monica among other places.

While serving as a Volunteer in Service to America (VISTA) in Chicago, Ralph met his future wife, Kathleen Agnes Conway. They moved to California together and had their first child, Chava. Eventually they meandered to Russellville, Arkansas, where they had their second child, Liam. The family soon moved to Fayetteville where Ralph attended graduate school in adult education. There they had their third child, Benerin and raised their family while working and serving the community.

Kathleen practiced midwifery and Ralph became a leader in social work and adult education. He worked for the Economic Opportunity Agency helping underprivileged families in Northwest Arkansas and became the director after many years of service. In 1984, Ralph founded the Washington County Single Parent Scholarship Fund and built into the Arkansas Single Parent Scholarship Fund by 1990. The organization still thrives today and offers $1.5 million in higher education scholarships annually. After retirement in 2013, Ralph continued to serve his community and most recently started the nonprofit, Northwest Arkansas Books for Kids, which creates complete family literacy programs in public schools.

Ralph loved his family and doing what they relished together.

With a life well-lived, he was a world-traveler and visited countries as far flung as Spain, France, Ireland, Israel, South Korea, and New Zealand. Ralph was a voracious reader and filled his home bookshelves to overflowing. He found peace and enjoyment when outdoors and sailing on lakes and oceans, hiking and camping. He always sought engaging social activities with Kathleen and their many friends in the NWA community and beyond. He strived to help people endlessly, with his family, work and personal life. He will be dearly missed by family, friends and those whose lives he touched so generously.

Ralph is survived by his wife Kathleen Conway; daughter Chava Boyett and husband Kenny, and their children Tate and Jett of Fayetteville; son Liam Nesson and wife Jessica Andrews, and their children Chloe and Eleanor of Hilo, HI; and son Benerin Nesson and wife Angie Jae of Truckee, CA.

If you would like to make a donation in memory of Ralph, please direct gifts to the Arkansas Single Parent Scholarship Program (https://www.aspsf.org/donate) or Northwest Arkansas Books for Kids (https://www.nwabooksforkids.org/).

Memorial services will be held at 2 p.m. Wednesday, January 8, 2020 at Temple Shalom of Fayetteville.

 

13 Condolences

  1. Kathy Parker Mastalerz
    • Paul Reagan

      Dang it all to heck. Really gonna miss this man. I know you in the family will also.

      Las palabras contra un espacio vacío parecen inútiles.

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    • Christy Meadors

      Mr. Nesson worked with my mom at EOA. He was always so very nice to us when we visited my mom. She always talked very highly of him. He made the world a better place. Our condolenses to his family.

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  2. Marian Truax and all the Truax family

    We are so sadden and shocked to hear of Ralph’s passing. Just after he completed his journey walking a few wks ago. I would have never thought this. He was such an inspiration to the community as a leader,etc. We will be thinking of you at this sad time and know our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

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  3. Rolf Wilkin

    Ralph was a wonderful man and a cornerstone of the Northwest Arkansas community. He will be dearly missed at Springdale Rotary and by everyone that knew him. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ralph and his family.

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  4. Ron Pimentel

    Rest in peace Ralph. I commend you and your family for a life, albeit much too short, a life of service, kindness and charity. I am happy to have known you as a classmate and friend. (BHS class of 1964)

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  5. Rania Trulley

    Kate & family, there are no words I could ever say that haven’t already been conveyed. The service was so touching & I am glad to have been able to honor Ralph this way. I wish all of you healing in your feelings of loss. Rania Trulley

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  6. Christy Kyle Pollock

    Heavy mourning covers my heart this week as I try to understand and adjust to the tragic and sudden loss of this sweet soul. He bicycled right out of the world, doing what he loved most, being playful having fun with his grandson. Farewell, dear friend to so many at Temple, his family, and friends in town, across the state, nation and world. May your example of love continue to flourish.

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  7. JACKIE HALL WEILAND

    RALPH WAS SUCH A GOOD SOUL. HE WOULD BUY FLOWERS AT EVERY SHOP I WORKED AT. HE WAS THE KIND OF PERSON WHO MADE YOU FEEL BETTER JUST TALKING TO HIM.

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  8. Frank Southecorvo

    Kate and family — I am so sad to hear of Ralph’s passing. I’m so glad that to have been at the “Nesson get together” at Carol’s house and spend some time with you and Ralph. Playing music with Ralph at Barbara’s memorial was also very special. Sending you love and hugs, Frank and Robin Southecorvo

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  9. Louise Rozier and Franklin Evarts

    I will always remember being on down Dickson Street many years ago and seeing Liam walking with his arm on Ralph’s shoulder—the perfect picture of filial and paternal love…
    We are sorry for your loss and offer our most sincere condolences.

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  10. Steve Ridenoure

    Ralph will be missed, thoughts and prayers for his family.

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  11. Roger Guy

    So sad to see this so late. Ralph was a super nice guy. I stayed with he and Kate in Arkansas while doing research about VISTA workers in Uptown, Chicago . Both Ralph and Kate were extremely kind and hospitable to me. I felt like I had known him even though I had just met him that day. An incredible soul.

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